If men would only listen

Starting many years ago, Gar would come home from work rubbing his right shoulder. I’d ask what was wrong and he’d say he didn’t know, but his shoulder hurt. I’d say maybe he should go get it looked at and he’d say it would be better in the morning. This was a nightly conversation and did the shoulder worsen? Why yes it did. Did Gar go get it looked at? Why no he didn’t. Instead, he’d take ibuprofen and suffer. I’d like to add again, just for clarification and in case there’s a cross-examination, I knew for a fact he should go have someone look at his shoulder.